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Compatibility

Liz Pinon-Sosa


Compatibility Check! 

There will be a time where you find a connection that feels just right. How do you know if you and the person you just met are truly compatible?


Here are some signs to look out for:

  • Good Vibes: Pay attention to how well you click. Do conversations flow naturally? Do you laugh and enjoy each other’s company?

  • Feeling Heard: Do they listen to you and respect your thoughts? Do they make you feel valued and understood?

  • Shared Values: Do you both have similar interests, goals, or beliefs about life?

  • Comfort Zone: Can you be your true self around them without fear of judgment?

  • Effortless Time Together: Do you lose track of time when you’re talking or hanging out? Does being with them make you feel calm and happy?

  • Teamwork: How do you handle differences? Do you feel like you can work together to solve problems instead of creating more?



The right connection will feel balanced and natural. Trust your instincts and give it time to grow!


Signs of Incompatibility:

Not every connection is meant to last, and that’s okay! Here are some signs that you and the person you just met might not be a good match:


  • Constant Misunderstandings: Do you feel like they don’t “get” you, no matter how much you explain yourself? Miscommunication can be a red flag.

  • Feeling Unheard: Do they interrupt, dismiss, or ignore your thoughts and feelings? If they don’t make you feel respected, that’s a sign.

  • Different Values: Do you have clashing beliefs, priorities, or goals? For example, you might want a family, and they don’t—or you both have completely different life plans.

  • Lack of Effort: Do you feel like you’re always the one trying to connect or solve problems, while they don’t seem to care?

  • No Fun Together: Are conversations forced, awkward, or draining? If spending time with them feels like work, it might not be a good fit.

  • Judgment or Criticism: Do they make you feel like you can’t be yourself? If they criticize or try to change you, it’s a sign they may not accept you as you are.

  • Toxic Patterns: Pay attention to controlling behavior, lack of trust, or disrespect. These are serious red flags.


A good connection should feel like teamwork. If you’re always questioning or feeling uneasy, it might be time to move on.


Listen to your gut, it usually knows what’s best!

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